The Bredenhof Immigration Experience

In the same line as the last post, I’ve also uploaded a couple of chapters from my late grandfather’s book By Grace Alone.  Here he describes his experiences coming to Canada from the Netherlands.

W. H. Bredenhof (1922-2010)

This past Wednesday my grandfather, Wicher (Bill) Hendrik Bredenhof, was promoted to glory by his Father in heaven.  A devout Christian all his life, our family is comforted with the gospel of free grace that he embraced.  He was 88 years old and dearly loved by family and friends.  The funeral will be held this coming Tuesday at 1:00 PM at the Langley Canadian Reformed Church.

Here and here you can find some of my Opa’s wartime stories, excerpted from his autobiography, By Grace Alone.

This is Opa with his second-oldest son, Jake.

Opa with our youngest daughter in August of 2009, shortly before we moved to Hamilton.  He dearly loved both his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.  We were all his favourites.

Opa and my step-grandmother with our youngest.

My sister has also posted some beautiful pictures and tribute to Opa.  We’re all going to miss him so much.  We already do.  We were so richly blessed by God to have such a wonderful, godly grandfather.  Soli Deo Gloria.

Book Review: The Masculine Mandate

The Masculine Mandate: God’s Calling to Men, Richard D. Phillips, Orlando: Reformation Trust Publishing, 2010.  Hardcover, 174 pages, $15.43.

Back in the 1990s, it was Promise Keepers that attempted to bring men to realize their calling as men, especially as husbands and fathers.  At that time, helpful critiques were offered by some in the Reformed community.  In the first years of the new millennium, it was John Eldredge and his book Wild at Heart that seemed to get the attention of many men.  However, it soon became evident that Eldredge had some serious theological problems.  For one thing, he seemed to lean towards a heretical view of God’s sovereignty known as open theism.  Open theism teaches that God takes risks – in Eldredge’s language, “…there is definitely something wild in the heart of God.”  Since God takes risks (and he doesn’t know what will happen), men too should go out on a limb and be godly (i.e. God-like).

It’s easy to take shots at the bad stuff that’s been put out there for Christian men.  It’s obviously much more difficult to come up with a positive approach.  The Masculine Mandate is a solid effort in that direction.  The author’s purpose is to give clear, sound biblical teaching for men about being men.

Richard Phillips is a PCA pastor in Greenville, South Carolina and the author of several other books.  In a previous life, he served as a tank officer in the U.S. Army and a professor at the U.S. Military Academy at West Point.  His military service certainly grabbed my attention.  After all, what could be more masculine than commanding tanks?  On several occasions throughout the book, he provides illustrations or anecdotes that could only be gained from someone with military experience.  Yet it is the Bible that provides the foundation for everything in this little volume.

The author’s starting place is the Garden of Eden.  He notes that Adam’s call was two-fold:  to work and to keep.  It’s those two imperatives that form the thrust of this book.  Everything is filtered through those commands:  work, marriage, child-rearing, friendship, and church leadership.  According to Phillips, the Masculine Mandate is “to be spiritual men placed in real-world, God-defined relationships, as lords and servants under God, to bear God’s fruit by serving and leading.”

One could quibble with a few minor points, but generally you’ll find a biblically sound presentation of manhood in these pages.  The one point that I’ll comment on has to do with his discussion of the means of grace on pages 38-39.  He rightly identifies one of those means as being God’s Word.  To be transformed into Christ-likeness, we need the Holy Spirit to apply the Word of God.  One would expect a Reformed/Presbyterian author to place the emphasis here on regularly sitting under the preaching of the Word of God.  Instead, the only thing that gets mentioned here is personal Bible study.  Were he pressed on it, I’m guessing the author would agree that regular church attendance and sitting under the proclamation of the gospel is crucial, but it’s overlooked here and elsewhere in the book and that’s unfortunate.  Too often in the broader context, church-going is regarded as more of a feminine activity.  Manly men belong in church sitting under the means of grace with their wives and children.

Phillips does interact some with other views of manhood.  For instance, early in the book he provides a brief critique of John Eldredge’s Wild at Heart.  There are many aberrant views of masculinity floating about and even where this book doesn’t address them directly, it will provide helpful biblical instruction to inoculate ourselves against them.  A recent issue of The Atlantic had a cover story entitled, “The End of Men.”  The article stated that there is a massive role reversal taking place in our culture.  Women are now in the majority in the US workforce.  Most managers in US businesses are women.  Most likely similar trends are taking place in Canada.  We are in the midst of a major cultural shift and we need guidance from the Bible.  Richard Phillips provides that.

Written with clarity, this book deserves to be read by men of all ages.  Since it has study questions for reflection and discussion at the end, it could be helpful for a men’s fellowship group at church.  Or perhaps a father could read this book with his older teenage son(s) and have it stimulate some good discussion about biblical manhood.  It’s one of the better books on the subject.

Faith and Child Rearing

On Sunday I begin a week of vacation, so things are going to be quiet here on Yinkahdinay for the next while.  In the meantime, here’s a thought-provoking  article from a recent issue of the OPC magazine New Horizons on “Faith and Child Rearing.” In fact, you might want to check out some of the other excellent articles on raising a family in the February 2010 issue.  They can all be found here.  Good stuff!

Catechism for Shorties

In many of our Reformed churches (at least CanRC, anyway), catechism instruction for the children/youth is something that’s only done by the church.  Sometimes church catechism classes begin in Grade 7, sometimes in Grade 8.  Very rarely is anything done to catechize children who are younger.  Moreover, all the emphasis falls on the teaching of the church, as if parents basically have no role in teaching Christian doctrine.

Parents should be catechizing their children as soon as they’re able to understand.  That means not only teaching them Bible stories, but also teaching them the basic truths of the Christian faith.  There are different ways that this can be done.  In our family, we use Starr Meade’s Training Hearts, Teaching Minds.  This is a devotional based on the Westminster Shorter Catechism.  We’ve been using it for at least six or seven years and highly recommend it.

The other day I came across another resource that might be helpful.  The Pasadena United Reformed Church has a “Catechism for Shorties.”  It’s designed for pre-schoolers.  There are 88 simple questions and answers that give a solid doctrinal foundation.  You can find it right here.